The existence of human is complicated, no one can live apart from others and the soul is multifaceted. Our outer appearance might differ from our inner self and always appear in different ways. They can alternate in any time, sometimes syncronize, sometimes oppose and sometimes repel. A human being exist through embracing these difficulties. Perhaps in self recognition, the most important thing is to see the different soul that exist in the same self, where you might exist as a “she” or “he”.